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Post by TxKpr 26/01/15, 11:46 am

Just wondering are yalls opinions on Parents talking to opposing teams DD's. Ex: "Dont push my daughter"
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Post by the7wolf 26/01/15, 11:48 am

They shouldn't be addressing their own kids during a game let alone barking insults and remarks to opposing players.

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Post by soccersounder 26/01/15, 01:31 pm

I can say as a Ref (for me), that one single word from a parent to a kid, equaled an immediate 1st and only warning to that parent.

As a parent, when I hear parents addressing other kids, that is the lowest thing you can do out there. If you can't handle your dd being fouled, put her in another sport, go sit in the car, or yell at the Ref. Just never another kid. That is the #1 reason for parent fights.
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Post by Guest 26/01/15, 02:12 pm

you have to be a nutbag to talk to any kid but your own and even then that's dicey....messing with people's kids is asking for trouble...

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Post by banana kick 26/01/15, 02:15 pm

Unless you are encouraging a player, say nothing.
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Post by Lyin Ted 26/01/15, 05:48 pm

banana kick wrote:Unless you are encouraging a player, say nothing.

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Post by Tiki-taka 26/01/15, 09:05 pm

Would "I encourage you to stop pushing" be alright?

Or " Hey Number 18, great job punching and kicking my daughter! Thank you!"

Or "Ref, thank you so much for allowing number 17 to pummel my daughter, she is so much stronger for it. Can we have you at our next game, you are wonderful."
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Post by TxKpr 27/01/15, 06:46 am

So..... are you for or against Tiki?
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Post by Guest 28/01/15, 06:08 am

Why not just start a new poll... Nothing like a poll to get the forum revved up for Spring time!

Idea:

05 Worst Sidelines:
and enter a list of the 4 or 5 worst in your mind and let the magic of the popular vote point out the bad apples

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Post by TxKpr 28/01/15, 07:08 am

Start it up TXsoccerMommy
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Post by Guest 28/01/15, 08:42 am

My DD has never committed a foul, so this hasn't been an issue. Very Happy

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Post by garageoffice 28/01/15, 11:42 am

My favorites are the parents of teams that play an especially physical brand of soccer who start throwing fits on the sideline when the opposing team raises their physicality to match. I've seen some pretty ugly comments directed at opposing players in that situation. It would be humorous if it wasn't so wrong.

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Post by InaB 28/01/15, 12:05 pm

OK, so is it all right to tell your DD to pay no attention to that player, you are outplaying her and that is upsetting her. Cool
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Post by Ev23 28/01/15, 12:28 pm

I think the indirect comments are just as bad. Gets the other parents going and starts trouble. Just shut up and watch the game. But every team has a vocal parent and that likes to get everyone going.
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Post by InaB 28/01/15, 12:47 pm

That was just a joke Ev23 Very Happy.
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Post by Ev23 28/01/15, 12:50 pm

Lol. Not directed at you, just in general. Maybe parents on my daughter team....lol
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Post by Guest 28/01/15, 01:54 pm

InaB wrote:OK, so is it all right to tell your DD to pay no attention to that player, you are outplaying her and that is upsetting her.  Cool

that's another can of worms. I have heard people tell their kids, "that 17 has no talent thats why she is fouling you etc". why someone would say things like this is nuts...

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Post by futbollove 28/01/15, 02:00 pm

silentparent wrote:
InaB wrote:OK, so is it all right to tell your DD to pay no attention to that player, you are outplaying her and that is upsetting her.  Cool

that's another can of worms. I have heard people tell their kids, "that 17 has no talent thats why she is fouling you etc". why someone would say things like this is nuts...
I'll bet it was a parent of a CPP cheers
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Post by Guest 28/01/15, 02:05 pm

silentparent wrote:
InaB wrote:OK, so is it all right to tell your DD to pay no attention to that player, you are outplaying her and that is upsetting her.  Cool

that's another can of worms. I have heard people tell their kids, "that 17 has no talent speed, thats why she is fouling you etc". why someone would say things like this is nuts...

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Post by InaB 28/01/15, 03:47 pm

I think I have found a solution. http://twentytwowords.com/how-to-shut-up-mean-obnoxious-parents-on-the-sidelines-of-their-kids-games/
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Post by banana kick 28/01/15, 05:16 pm

Brilliant!
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